JG-L Articles-Page-006-Mrs KC

This interview was conducted by e-mail with Mrs KC of England during early September, 2005.

Mrs KC came to my attention a couple of years ago and we corresponded briefly, then lost track of each other until this month, when I found her again through Grommet, in Australia.

It’s been a real pleasure to re-connect with this vivacious, intelligent, curious, and obviously beautiful lady, even though she won’t let us see herself, other than in full bondage. Mrs KC has widely varied interests, as can be seen in the accompanying photographs, and she’s obviously interested in experiencing as many forms and sensations of bondage as can be managed, and this, delightfully combined with a healthy sexual appetite. I think she’s heard the same expression I have ... “They only pass the cookies ONCE!” and obviously intends to get a full share.

I suppose that’s why we’ve found ourselves as kindred spirits and so hope you’ll enjoy the ‘interview’ that follows. Without further ado, here’s Mrs KC!

JG-L: You’re English, and so come by your decidedly kinky interests honestly. By saying that, I include myself, being a first generation Canadian with both parents coming from the UK. So, that being said, were there any other influences that you can think of that sparked your interests?
Mrs KC: I was blind to bondage until I met my partner. We were courting in his car (we’d been an 'item' for maybe a year or so at this stage) when he suddenly produced a small length of chain and two padlocks (he’s such a smoothy)!! Without further ado, he asked if he could chain my wrists together whilst we petted! I trusted him 100% and so agreed ... and once my wrists were chained ... there was no going back for me! What a sensation ... to be owned and dominated by a man ... WOW!! (Incidentally, with my wrists padlocked, he got the best oral sex he’d ever had, that night – period!!)

JG-L: I KNOW I’m never supposed to ask a lady her age, but can you give me a general idea?
Mrs KC: Certainly not ... that would spoil any fun!! My Yahoo! age is shown as 98, BTW!!

JG-L: Do you have a big family; i.e. brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles? Are your parents still alive?
Mrs KC: Parents deceased now – but sadly we weren't close. We never wanted children ... still don’t!!

JG-L: What are your ‘vital statistics’, if I may be so bold?
Mrs KC: Just lately I’ve suffered a little with my health so I lost two stone (about 28 pounds for those who don’t understand the term - JG-L)!!! My boobs and hips have gone (for now ) but they will come back to their usual 36B-25-35. Quite curvy, actually!

JG-L: Many scene ‘analysts’ tell us that what we do for entertainment and play is the result of some sort of childhood ‘trauma’. I disagree strongly with that view, but would ask; did you have a happy childhood?
Mrs KC: I had an OK childhood ... nothing ‘to write home about’ if you’ll pardon the pun. My life really started when I was 19 years old .

JG-L: If your family is aware, do they understand and accept why you’re content to live this life style? Do you care?
Mrs KC: None of our surviving family, relatives or friends are aware of my kink ... I’m a professional person and would be terribly embarrassed if they knew. Hence, I’m always hooded, although we also have a large collection of me in bondage NOT hooded ... but these will go with me to my grave!!

JG-L: Do you suffer any pangs of guilt, for liking what you do?
Mrs KC: Absolutely not! Never. EVER!!

JG-L: At what age did you first really begin to play serious bondage games?
Mrs KC: ) He had his own bedroom and slowly but surely introduced me (and himself!) to latex and leather bondage (in fact, he used to take the door knob off his bedroom door in case his parents barged in – it saved us once as well!).
Once married, we entered into a lovely fetish sex life ... and a few years down the line we are still really enjoying it about three times a week!

JG-L: Do you have a job, outside the home?
Mrs KC: I don’t, now. I was a 100% professional before I became a lady of leisure! (NO ... I’m NOT telling).

JG-L: Do you do concealed but public bondage, or do you confine your play just to your home?
Mrs KC: I have been driven around the countryside whilst in bondage or heavy leather gear (my collar always gets a second quick head turn at traffic lights), but our bondage is our sexual foreplay so it’s nearly always at home nowadays (although I spent many a courting evening shackled in the back of his van – bliss! He loves me and so even supplies a mattress!! LOL)

JG-L: When you met your Master, did you recognize that he was the one who could and would take you to your desired state of bondage, submission and slavery?
Mrs KC: Oh yes, yes, yes, YES!

JG-L: Many people say they are submissive. You are obviously an intelligent and very self-aware person and so that’s a seeming contradiction. Why do you submit to the stringent and perhaps sometimes oppressive control of your Master?
Mrs KC: I just love him and would do anything for him. I’m so protected whilst in my bondage. Having said that, these last few weeks I’ve been behaving strangely ... more Domme!!!

JG-L: Do you know why being locked securely and inescapably into your restraints appeals to you?
Mrs KC: ‘cause I get shagged at the end of it!! Hahahaha ... Seriously, book after book could be written about it. I’m not really sure. I just want to please him.

JG-L: When you and your Master decided to get married, did you adopt a ‘slave’ life style, or did it evolve slowly?
Mrs KC: Slave? 50 – 50 in our mansion. I’m a slave when it suits me. I nag and sulk like any other wife!

JG-L: How serious is your commitment to the life style? Do you live it all the time, have any sort of schedule, or is it spontaneous?
Mrs KC: I love the internet (in fact, he moans about me always being on it!) and love talking to others about bondage. It’s amazing how many men can’t get their wives to try it, so they, luckily for me, pour their fantasies out to me. Their wives don’t know what they are missing. WE have bondage about three times a week. I’m always gagged for the final action (that I do insist on). I do exactly as I’m told and he dresses and prepares me like a mannequin. I usually have no idea what is going to happen to me!

JG-L: Do you still retain safe words and/or signals for yourself?
Mrs KC: No. Never needed them. He has NEVER overstepped the mark. I’d be very disappointed if he did. If I’m to receive a leathering from his riding crop, then he will tell me it’s coming, but if I’m a latex pony girl, then I KNOW it is coming!!

JG-L: Do you have other areas of interest within the scene? Can you tell me about them?
Mrs KC: Strangely, I’m not a great lover ofvideo bondage. I like them, but much prefer photographs. Men in bondage (especially tacky bondage) makes me laugh. I’m 100% straight, but do enjoy pix of women in bondage more than pix of men in bondage.

JG-L: How about hobbies like golf, travel, etc.?
Mrs KC: My dogs. I love them to bits.

JG-L: Do you own, or have you ever worn a chastity belt?
Mrs KC: I haven’t got one … don’t need one!!

JG-L: I just HAVE to ask, seeing as how I sort of brought the idea into the modern age ... how do you feel about being fitted with an Inhibitor Bar, and being so intimately and strongly controlled by it, when you are?
Mrs KC: You and another guy Richard, introduced me to them. I must say when it is fitted and padlocked inside of me ... I am truly subservient. I can’t sit, lay down, run, or do anything other than be led around on a leash. Every woman should try one. My thanks to both of you!

JG-L: From one of the galleries on the site, I see that most of your equipment seems to consist of rubber and leather as an integral part of the design. Do you have any particular preferences?
Mrs KC: I love them both. We also like our PVC as well, but leather and latex are definitely more classy, especially with padlocks fitted! :-)

JG-L: OK, would you please describe your emotions and sensations when you are at first locked into the restraints, and realize that you cannot escape from them. How does this make you feel?
Mrs KC: I enter another world. No more problems for the time being. As each strap is pulled tight, I sigh with happiness. My bondage is just tight enough for me (we are not into really heavy stuff like plastic bags over the head, pins in boobs – we’ll leave that to the pay sites). My sensations go into overdrive depending on the position I’m in. If my legs are held open with a spreader bar, then it is strange for a woman not to be able to close her legs (is this making sense?), so, when he enters me this way, it’s such a unique and strange experience. I imagine I’ve been kidnapped, abducted, imprisoned, etc., but out of bondage I rarely think about these things! When fitted with my ring-gag harness it’s weird that he can enter my mouth with me being unable to do anything about it. Same with (thankfully not a lot) anal sex. To be bound doggie style and have a man humping away inside my bum is both weird, stimulating and bloody sore, all at the same time; yet I love it because I can’t stop him!

JG-L: After being confined and controlled like this for however long, unable to escape, do you enjoy the events that follow your release? Do you think that this kind of foreplay enhances your sexual experiences?
Mrs KC: Our bondage is our foreplay, and after sex it costs him a bottle of red wine and a thousand “I love you’s.” I am virtually always released immediately after he’s humped me, unless I’m lucky enough to be getting ‘seconds’ and then he simply cleans me up, then re-tightens the straps whilst I wait another 20 minutes or so!!

JG-L: Do you enjoy or thirst for sex, while bound in some of the gear shown in the images?
Mrs KC: Oh Yes !!

JG-L: Let me set a scene for you: suspended, gas masked, legs spread wide, bound helplessly and suddenly a sexual episode begins ... Is that an erotic thought or concept for you?
Mrs KC: Been there, done it!!

JG-L: Do you like to sleep in restraints? Does it happen often? Not often enough?
Mrs KC: No, not really. Once our sex has been done we cuddle or (or he bloody falls asleep in 2.2 seconds flat!)

JG-L: What don’t you like as far as restraints are concerned? Why?
Mrs KC: We’ve never really been into ropes. I don’t know why !!!

JG-L: I’ve seen your web site and really like the variety of restraint equipment that you have been confined in. Do you enjoy the experimentation?
Mrs KC: Yes. He is very good at varying the bondage. I’d be so disappointed if my bondage became routine.

JG-L: How much of that equipment is fastened upon you for real, and then you are left alone to live with it?
Mrs KC: During our sessions ALL my bondage is very real – I genuinely wouldn’t have it any other way. I hate those crappy web sites where a model can reach her gag with loosely bound hands etc. Give me House of Gord, Pupett or Devonshire any day!! The photo’s only came about as an afterthought one day. Hence all my pix show me fully bound and not in any stages of being bound. It’s OUR time. The pix are a little treat for the world.

JG-L: What emotions do you feel in this situation, knowing that you may be left fastened as you are for a time to come?
Mrs KC: I don’t want to EVER be released, until he’s satisfied!

JG-L: What is your favourite bondage scenario? Why?
Mrs KC: I love my total latex bondage, where I simply cannot move. Those situations take all my inhibitions and problems away and are so relaxing on my mind. I also love being used as a latex pony girl ... to be controlled by a man is erotic as well as ... simply wonderful.

JG-L: People sometimes crave a bondage experience only, instead of a sexual encounter with their partner. Does this often happen for you?
Mrs KC: No. I always get shagged - LOL.

JG-L: Speaking from personal experience, many of us feel an intense ‘rush’ of excitement that seems to fill their entire body (sweating, trembling, shaking hands, etc.) when fully and helplessly bound, knowing we cannot escape our predicament. Does this sort of phenomena happen to you also?
Mrs KC: Yes it does. I still go weak at the knees when the straps are tightened and the locks clicked shut.

JG-L: How often does your Master confine you fully? As an erotic enticement, or because you’ve been ‘bad’?
Mrs KC: Well, I am naturally a feisty lady, so this is his excuse to strap me down and be the boss!!

JG-L: Does that possibility frighten or attract you?
Mrs KC: It’s all fantasy for us both to enjoy. The day it frightens me, I’ll tell him so.

JG-L: You definitely appear to enjoy his desires. I have to assume that you are not just doing this to please your Master, but because you actually want to do it.
Mrs KC: I do. I love that guy so much! He looks after me.

JG-L: Would you ever go for wearing a steel collar of the kind made by Axsmar, complete with prominent restraint rings?
Mrs KC: Only in our playtime. I’d get no enjoyment with others knowing I was a ‘slave’. That scene is not for me (especially with my previous career!!).

JG-L: Does the thought of something like this happening scare you, or does it fascinate you?
Mrs KC: I simply doesn’t enter my mind in the real world, however, when I’m in bondage, ALL the fantasies come out!

JG-L: What has been the most frightening bondage situation for you? Why was it so?
Mrs KC: Never really been frightened. He is very good at knowing what to do to me and how to do it. Sometimes when in total latex bondage and unable to move anything other than my eyes, with just two tiny quarter inch breathing holes between me and the outside world (life!) then that spooks me (and EXCITES me, as well).

JG-L: On the other hand, which bondage scenes and equipment do you really enjoy? Can you explain your answer, please?
Mrs KC: Depends solely on my mood. I love it when he talks dirty to me whilst I’m fully bound, or if I’m his pony girl and he say’s he is going to thrash my back until massive welts come up, then bugger me etc., etc. Wow, talk about stimulation! (I’d kill him if he did though – LOL).

JG-L: Have you practised self-bondage – a time when you can experiment with the bondage equipment and restraints at your own pace? Did you enjoy those times or were they just a poor substitute for your Master binding you?
Mrs KC: Never practised self bondage. It does nothing for me at all! I have a Master to do THAT! Why should I bark, when I have a dog to do it? LOL.

JG-L: Do you have a favourite material for bondage: i.e. leather, metal, rubber, or something else?
Mrs KC: If you visit my website, it’s quite obvious it’s leather, latex, PVC and steel.

JG-L: Do you enjoy sex while in bondage? Often? Is it better than sex without being restrained? Can you explain your answers, please?
Mrs KC: I MUST have sex in my bondage. To feel a man penetrating you, when you can’t do anything about it, is one of the most wonderful experiences a woman can have. TRY IT LADIES!!! I also love our vanilla sex in front of the fire and burying my mouth in his crotch etc., especially with copious amounts of wine!

JG-L: Before you and your Master met, what sort of work did you do?
Mrs KC: Just a few various local jobs. Nothing spectacular. I met him quite young, at 19.

JG-L: Do you have any children?
Mrs KC: No. We never wanted any! I’m an animal lover only.

JG-L: Do you have any bondage, restraint, or other dreams and fantasies that you want to have fulfilled? Can you give me a few hints as to what they’d be?
Mrs KC: LOL – To be tied to the bed and towed down the road on the bed!!! Weird, eh?

JG-L: Not at all, but if you were offered the chance to actually have those dreams and fantasies made into reality, would you do it?
Mrs KC: No way!

JG-L: Would you like to do public (yet concealed from view, under your clothes) public bondage?
Mrs KC: We have done little bits and bobs. I used to tease him when he came home on the train and I’d pick him up, by dressing in full black leather. EVERYTHING I wore was black leather from the long coat, thigh boots, collar, skirt, top, knickers etc., etc., then jingle a set of handcuffs in my pocket. He couldn’t get me home quick enough!! I think half the men followed us home from the station as well!!

JG-L: How long were you out in public, where, and how did you feel about it?
Mrs KC: As above. What a rush! I knew I looked normal, but the men knew I was dressed for shagging. I was nervous going into the station, but dripping wet coming out!!

JG-L: If you haven’t done it yet, would you like to? What sort of restraints and clothing would ‘turn you on?
Mrs KC: I’m OK with what I have. We have a large collection (not as much as you, mind) but leather straight jackets, skirts and pants. Also lot’s of the same in latex and PVC. Our back room has a wonderful leather and rubber scent to it.

JG-L: What was the first piece of really interesting bondage gear you ever wore? Where did you find it?
Mrs KC: It was a simple red latex hood and bra and panties. I felt a different woman/animal!! Hubby buys ALL the clothes and equipment.

JG-L: I’ve seen a couple of pictures of you wearing a full, human horse harness and being controlled by a set of reins. Did you enjoy the experience?
Mrs KC: Too right I did! Wouldn’t any subbie???

JG-L: From my own perspective of dressing ladies in a human horse harness, I know that this is an intensely personal, ceremonial process. Can you describe the emotions and sensations you experienced while you were being harnessed?
Mrs KC: It’s like being transported to another dimension. Especially if the equipment used on me is quality tackle. This makes all the difference because I love to be a captive pony girl, one that would make a run for it if I was allowed to. Many like a pony girl, I like to just be trained, but I have to be tightly harnessed and be a captive.

JG-L: Once you're helpless and being controlled by the reins leading to your Master’s hand, how do you feel? Obviously he had the capability to make you do, quite literally, anything he desired.
Mrs KC: This is what it’s all about ... to be the sole purpose of my Master's attention. I love his attention. I want to please him, but at the same time keep some fire in my belly, so he has to be very positive and firm with me!

JG-L: Can you imagine being kept like that for an extended period? Please describe how that thought makes you feel?
Mrs KC: Oh I love the fantasy theory! However, after a while of the cropping, pampering, training, then I am wet enough to be taken whenever he wishes . Being kept 24/7 as a pony girl is not my idea of a good time.

JG-L: If he handed-off control of your reins, and thus of you, to a stranger, then left you to be trained or disciplined by him or her, how would you feel?
Mrs KC: Disappointed in my Master. I am his and his alone. If he handed me over to someone else, then all the illusion would simply disappear.

JG-L: At times, we all play around the edges of non-consensual bondage. Have you ever been restrained by your Master for being a bitchy person or for having broken one of his ‘rules’?
Mrs KC: Oh yes! More often lately, as I’ve been a bugger to live with – LOL. If he drags me down and handcuffs me, then followed shortly by my regulation leather collar and leg irons, then I know I’m in for a thrashing, but also that it will end up with rough sex. It’s our way of equalizing things. If I’m naughty, then I get punished! The bondage is usually simple, but very secure, and on one occasion I was lightly whipped (nicely to ‘wet’ standard) then buggered!!!

JG-L: You are a petite person as can be seen from the pictures. Does this make you feel more vulnerable and more easily bound and thus controlled? Has this occurred often? Do you enjoy the act of being forced to submit then being chained or bound?
Mrs KC: Exactly what you have just said. Even if he wants oral sex, I am strapped into a sitting position so I HAVE to perform on him. I have no other choice. Just how a subbie likes it!

JG-L: Again, in my own personal experience, there can sometimes be large elements of terror and fear mixed into the bondage and restraint scenario. Do you find this to be true also?
Mrs KC: Well, we only practise on each other. You torment all those other lucky women!! Terror doesn’t enter the equation with a lover.

JG-L: Have you ever played with electrical stimulation?
Mrs KC: A little. We have a tens machine which makes my muscles jump around, but quite frankly it doesn’t really turn me on. Maybe I’m missing something????

JG-L: Many people in the bondage community like to play with medical gear: such things as speculums, ventilators (a mechanical breathing machine), operating tables, obstetric chairs, and other tools and equipment. Have you tried anything in this area? Did you enjoy the experiences or did they frighten you?
Mrs KC: I’ll leave all that to the experts, like you!!! Not really my scene.

JG-L: Do you ever worry about your fascination with the strong bondage scenarios?
Mrs KC: Certainly not!!! I have a wicked imagination which also needs mental feeding!!

JG-L: I know you’re not a person who’s just doing this for thrills, but that you have a deep need and desire for it. Are you a show off?
Mrs KC: Just the opposite! I’m not a flashy person. Sure, I dress to kill when going out. What lady doesn’t? Most of the scene set-ups on the net ARE posed just for the camera, with one or two exceptions. I don’t think you’d find many women kissing or walking hand in hand down the main street, dressed in latex catsuits, UNLESS they are being paid and there is a camera team with them!!

JG-L: Do you have a thirst for the more intense sensations, emotions, and feelings that are created when you are chained, leashed, or wearing a Pony Harness? Can you explain?
Mrs KC: I have found my level and seeing as we all have different levels, how would I know, or how do I compare? I am happy at the level we have. I don’t want to go any higher.

JG-L: Did you ever spend any time in the military? How about the medical professions?
Mrs KC: Close...

JG-L: Do you ever switch into a ‘dominant mode’? Why?
Mrs KC: Just lately I’ve been having a marvellous time tormenting my ‘slave’. I’ll be harnessed up as soon as he reads this – LOL. I have always been the complete subbie, but over the last few months have slowly started enjoying the power a woman can exert over a man. I finally got him in handcuffs the other week and what a way to receive a good tonguing!!! We even made love with me over an armchair and him still handcuffed after I guided him into me. Loved it!!

JG-L: What type of clothing appeals to you? Why?
Mrs KC: In my fantasy world, there’s only fetish gear that turns me on. Although he loves me in traditional basque, stockings and long elbow gloves with high heels. This attire DOES make a lady turn into a sex machine, that’s why we dress like this under evening dresses etc.

JG-L: Do you like to show off your restraints? Why?
Mrs KC: It’s more him than me. As it’s our foreplay, he only photographs a very small amount of our sessions which I post to the net. I’ve never, EVER, received any money for my photographs. The photos aren’t staged or acted. They are for real and I think it shows in them, and that’s why many people like them.

JG-L: Do you have any interesting piercings?
Mrs KC: No, nor tattoos. I feel so sorry for those models who have had stupid tattoo’s done when they where younger and are stuck with them now. Incidently, I also hate LARGE false breasts!!!

JG-L: How would you feel if you were pierced, and then the jewellery mounted in them, was made so that you could not remove them from yourself, nor could your Master? In other words, made ‘permanent’?
Mrs KC: If it was forced onto me, then I’d call the police - LOL. BTW, in my fantasy world I am fully and permanently nose ringed, nipple pierced, etc, etc, etc. Having said that, I’m a bit of a wimp re. piercings (and spankings, come to that!!).

JG-L: If this jewellery was mounted in your flesh, can you describe how you’d feel to have it used as an additional means of controlling and securing you, with leashes being attached to it?
Mrs KC: Ouch. Leather and steel restraints will do, thank you!

JG-L: Are you planning to do any photo-shoots in public places?
Mrs KC: No not really, as if I’m tied up tight, then I also expect sex! I’m sure the public would complain (there’s always one!) if they saw a latex bound woman being humped on the banks of the River Dee!!

JG-L: Do you regret any of the things and scenes you’ve done, or do you worry that others may think you’re completely strange?
Mrs KC: No. All my pix are done with love in them. If someone doesn’t like them, then they need not look at my site. I personally HATE any photos (manipulations.) or drawings which show dismembered women or women impaled or cooked for eating etc, etc.

JG-L: What is the most interesting scene to you and why is it?
Mrs KC: You’ve seen a 100 samples and all were immensely satisfying. I need variation.

JG-L: What is the scariest scene you can imagine and why is that so?
Mrs KC: He bought me a clear latex hood with only two small nose holes in it. That’s all my contact with life was. When he totally latex Barbie-dolled me (pix never taken, BTW), I felt as if I was on the fringe of suffocating, if he had left the room. Even when he was humping away at the Barbie doll, she was gasping to draw air in through those tiny holes!

JG-L: I know you’ve got access to a lot of pretty seriously-intentioned equipment, but what piece(s) do you not have, and would like to?
Mrs KC: I think a leather sleep sack would be nice, also a full length leather corset dress !

JG-L: OK, we’ve dealt with the hardware side of things. How about the locales? Do you have a special studio area, or do you and your Master just look for a good place, then shoot the pictures?
Mrs KC: We just move around the houses we have and sometimes in the garden (but usually don’t take pix there in case it’s recognised!!!).

JG-L: Do you have any words for people who are interested in bondage play? What advice can you give those who want to try your bondage ideas at home?
Mrs KC: Hmmm tough one. My Master is very good at what he does, as he’s had lot’s of practice at it! I suppose I’d recommend taking your time, still kissing your partner whilst tying/strapping them. Ensure they are 100% happy with being gagged AND unable to reach the gag!! Enjoy it.

JG-L: Do you play with other women?
Mrs KC: LOL – NO!!! 100% heterosexual is this lady!

JG-L: As a mature woman, do you feel that other women, generally, enjoy bondage? Any ideas why or why not?
Mrs KC: Gosh how does one answer that? Some of my friends are as dull as mud, others are extroverts, and yet I love all of their company. We sometimes discuss bondage, but not as deeply as you’d think. Mostly dates and men’s bums come to the forefront of our conversations. We’ll say if we’ve had a shag the night before, but wouldn’t say “and I was trussed upside down and pissed on as well”, if you catch my drift.

JG-L: Thank you Mrs KC. I really appreciate you taking the time and being so candid about yourself and your life. Do you have anything else to say in closing?
Mrs KC: Thankyou for taking the trime to talk to me. Oh! And one last thing ... I answer all e-mails sent to me :-).

JG-L: Please accept my and everyone else’s thanks, andvery best wishes for long and happy life with your Master playing in the life-style you so obviously love.
Mrs KC: Thank you! XXX