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AN INTERVIEW WITH LATEXLADY
4th November, 2005 - Added to - 9th & 15 November, 2005 -
This interview was
conducted by e-mail between LatexLady, her husband occasionally, and me,
in early November, 2005.
LatexLady is one of
those very lucky people who've been able to followed their passion, and
this is readily apparent in her blog (see:http://latexlifestyle.blogspot.com/).
She’s mature, intelligent, well-spoken and a happy, open correspondent
who has recognized within herself the attributes that make men instinctually
attracted to women. It’s not that she’s broken or abused ...
far from it! LatexLady has had the good fortune and smarts to recognize
who and what she is, and not to quibble or worry herself about her deepest
feelings and needs, despite all of the strident and more than tiresome
howlings of the Feminist Movement.
In addition, LatexLady
has also been fortunate enough to find, marry, and STAY married to a man
who recognized these attributes and desires within her, to say nothing
of her innate intelligence and potential. She has just recently begun
to take advantage of, and been encouraged to explore evermore interesting
excursions along the path of domination, submission, rubber enclosure
and bondage ... to say nothing of her more intense S&M desires. LatexLady
now enjoys a life that rubber fetishists the world over want desperately
to partake of; living, sleeping, shopping, and travelling in her now-enforced
style of dress. This covers a wide range of requirements: multiply latex-layered,
total enclosure 23/7, corsetted, gloved, masked, hooded, never showing
her face in public (and seldom even in private), as well as mostly gagged
and chained within her burqa when she is permitted out. Hard to believe?
Of course, but there are even stranger things in the world than either
you or I can possibly imagine.
As can be seen in
her blog, she now lives in San Jose, CA and has a full-time, dedicated
maid to assist her in her day-to-day existence, and to ensure that her
husband’s orders are properly executed while he travels. LatexLady
has immersed herself fully in her chosen life style, and having done so,
is rewarded with sensations and situations that few can imagine in even
a daily hum-drum life, to say nothing of her adventures when she travels
with her Master.
I hope you’ll
enjoy the interview that follows, and so without further ado, here’s
JG-L: I know it’s totally
improper to ask a lady her age, but damn it, I’ve seldom stood
on convention and so, how old are you now?
LatexLady: First, JG-L, let
me thank you for your interest in our lifestyle. My age is 50.
JG-L: How old were you when you
felt the first stirrings that have led you to this place in your life?
LatexLady: I was 16 when I had
my first sexual encounter. It developed into a D/s relationship between
me and a senior girl of 17 at the boarding school I attended. I think
I understood my submissive nature, however, when I was about 7. My mother
was very strict about dress and rituals around the house and I found
myself wanting to comply from a very early age.
JG-L: Where did they first
come to light?
LatexLady: As I said, I first
realized I enjoyed submitting to others at home at 7. My relationship
with a lover was at the school. I was raised in a strict Catholic family
(very pre-Vatican II) and the nuns were always fascinating to me through
kindergarten and elementary school. I was entranced by their discipline,
their submission to their order and its rules, and to their habits,
JG-L: Did it take you a long
time to accept that what your deepest and hidden desires were OK?
LatexLady: No. I do not know
what is wrong with me, but I have absolutely never felt any
angst over my desires be they my bisexual nature, fetish for latex,
or desire for a D/s lifestyle. I never felt compelled to discuss them,
particularly and I realized they would make many people uncomfortable,
but I never felt guilt … they were just me.
JG-L: Did you feel that you
were the sole occupant of your own universe?
LatexLady: Hmmm…not really.
I knew I was different from many others, but I think I always suspected
that the nuns around me were like me … submissive to a higher power
and a higher calling. And I knew about bisexual or lesbian girls for several
years before I explored that side of my nature, so I did not feel alone
JG-L: You’re married,
and for a considerable length of time (congratulations!). Was your husband
aware from the first of your interests, or was that a process of gradual
revelation to him?
LatexLady: Thank you, yes.
We have just celebrated our 30th anniversary. I do believe that Sir knew
immediately when we met that I was submissive. He has always said that
he would not have pursued a relationship if I were not.
JG-L: Do you have any siblings?
Are they aware of your interests and how far you’ve proceeded to
enjoy them? How about parents and their awareness?
LatexLady: I have a sister.
She has known of my bisexuality for years, but was not aware of my D/s
and latex fetish predilections until recently, when I visited with her
and remained encased the whole time. My parents are probably still
not aware of my bisexuality, but they have visited me and I them while
I have been encased. Of course, I wore latex street wear for years before
this. Rubber dresses, business suits with nice skirts; that sort of thing.
They all knew I liked latex.
JG-L: Obviously you’re
American but do you think that there is any sort of ‘genetic heritage’
that predisposes you to your chosen life style?
LatexLady: Well, I have a lot
of British and German blood in me…perhaps those contributed a little.
JG-L: Were there influences
you can think of that really sparked your interests?
LatexLady: My introduction
to nuns at about age 4 (as I recall) and my mother’s strict dress
code and rituals for us…we never wore slacks (I still have
never worn a pair). We always wore dresses and from about the age of 6,
as well as gloves and hats. Mother still wears gloves every time she leaves
the house. We were taught to call our parents Mother and Father, never
any slang. We were required to eat, study, watch TV, sleep, wake, breakfast,
and go to school along very strict time lines. There were rules about
everything in our lives. I am certain this led to me understanding myself
as a submissive.
JG-L: Do you have a big family;
i.e. brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles?
LatexLady: Only one sister,
but many aunts and uncles.
JG-L: What are your ‘vital
statistics’, if I may be so bold?
LatexLady: Currently I am 5’2”,
130 lbs, 36-B, 20" waist when corseted, which I almost always am
now, 36" hips.
JG-L: Many scene ‘analysts’
tell us that what we do for entertainment and play is the result of some
sort of childhood ‘trauma’. I strongly disagree with that
view, but would ask: did you have a happy childhood?
LatexLady: I had a wonderfully
happy childhood. Yes there were lots of rules, but we played games together,
my parents were very loving and very touchy … kisses and hugs many
times a day. We went out to cinema and theatre and on vacations. My father
was a bit aloof and formal with us but never harsh and I was absolutely
never abused. I stress this because it comes up so often. There was
no sexual, physical, or psychological abuse. I am not damaged.
We were expected to follow rules and we were punished
with spankings if we transgressed, but we were not abused and were deeply
JG-L: If your family is aware,
do they understand and accept why you’re content to live this life
style? Do you care?
LatexLady: They are aware and
while confused by it, they have accepted it. Even my father has. Do I
care? Certainly I care. I would never wish to give them a reason to be
sad or worried about me. But, I am my own person as they taught me to
be … so I made my own choices. It is this attitude they
instilled that made me certain I could be honest with them.
JG-L: Do you suffer any pangs
of guilt for liking and living the life style you do?
LatexLady: No, never. It is
far too much fun, and I do not believe in being guilty about enjoying
harmless pleasure and giving the same.
JG-L: Do you worry that perhaps
your enjoyment of full latex enclosure, to the extent you now practice
it, is an addiction and one that you’ll not be permitted to escape,
either by yourself, or through external forces?
LatexLady: I can quit anytime!
I am addicted to submission to my Dom ... Sir. I am not addicted to latex
anymore than someone is to cotton or linen. I do, however, enjoy
it immensely. But I am addicted to submitting to his requirements. He,
on the other hand, may be addicted to latex. It has been central to his
sexuality since before we met.
JG-L: How deep into this existence
will you go ... or do you know?
LatexLady: I do not really
know. We are 10 months in now and I am enjoying it all. It is up to Sir.
JG-L to LL’s Husband:
Sir, how far will you take your wife and possession along the path you
are now so happily following, or do you know?
I don’t know either. I’m making it up as I go along! It’s
really just a lot of fun and pleasure. I’m serious about her submitting,
but I haven’t decided about her TE yet. I really like her wearing
all that latex though.
JG-L to LL’s Husband:
From your wife’s descriptions on the blog, you travel widely and
frequently, and while travelling, it is your requirement that she be kept
in her total rubber enclosure on a 23/7 basis; this enforced by her maid.
She has now been in this situation for nearly a year. Do you have any
plans to increase the security of her confinement and a more pervasive
I don’t. We talk about this from time to time. Her collars are in
her mind, not around her neck. I don’t believe I need to force anything
on her. I enjoy her willingness to comply.
JG-L to LL’s Husband:
How would you do it?
As I said, it’s in her mind. I’ll work on that if I need her
to be more submissive. I’m not sure how she could be, though.
JG-L, back to LatexLady: At
what age did you first really begin to play serious bondage games? Were
you married to your husband then, or did it evolve in your relationship?
LatexLady: When I met my girlfriend
in high school, she used to tie me up with stockings and gag me and put
improvised hoods on me while she made love to me.
JG-L: Obviously, like the rest
of us poor stiffs out here in the rest of the world, you had a job. Do
you now have any type of employment outside the home?
LatexLady: No, I am retired.
I recently collaborated on a paper with a colleague, but I have no work
outside the home.
JG-L: Very well. If you’re
a stay at home Lady, what do you do to keep yourself amused, and continue
to be an interesting person?
LatexLady: I read a lot and
I sew, knit, embroider, etc. I write and love to travel when Sir takes
me out. I go out shopping and I meet friends sometimes.
JG-L: You’ve made mention
that you wear a fully concealing rubber burqa at all times when out in
public now. In addition, you write in the blog that because it offers
total concealment, you are almost always, now, hooded and gagged under
it and occasionally chained as well, when out of your residence. This
is the stuff of many rubber fetishists fevered fantasies and such being
the case, how do you really feel about this mandate that you must not
be in public places unless so equipped and attired?
LatexLady: At first, I was
just complying with Sir’s requirements, which gave me a thrill.
Now, it gives me a considerable thrill to be hooded and gagged under the
burqa. I do not know why, but I like being gagged in public …
it is extremely erotic to me. I have also grown to love the burqa and
its feel and even how it looks on me … so flowing and sensual. I
suspect that women who choose to wear them understand that, contrary to
intent, these garments turn their men on!
The other aspect of how I feel, however, is the deeper, psychological
one. This way of being in public plays to my deepest fantasies of being
objectified, unknowable, invisible, but present, somehow. I am a bit of
a ghost. I am no longer ‘in the world’ in the manner that
a nun (pre-V-II) was ‘not in the world’. I find that
to be immensely exciting, pleasing, comfortable, and erotic all at the
same time. I suspect some of your readers who have ventured out
fully encased understand what I mean … it is hard to put into words.
JG-L: When you met your husband,
did you recognize that he was the one who could and would take you to
your desired state of bondage, submission and slavery?
LatexLady: Pretty quickly,
yes. He proposed marriage and I accepted on our third date. As I recall,
I was tied up and he was holding me underwater in a bathtub as a part
of a torture scene. He was controlling my breathing and my movements and
that scene was making me come. I came up at one point for air and he told
me he wanted me to marry him. The next time he let me up I spluttered
“Yes!” before he pushed me under again! We still play that
game from time to time. Some people have their song, we have
our SM scene!
JG-L: Many people say they
are submissive, but you revel in it. You’re obviously an intelligent
and very self-aware person and so that is a seeming contradiction to many.
Why do you submit to this stringent and sometimes oppressive control of
LatexLady: Nothing oppressive
about it. I submit to it because I enjoy it … deeply, physically
and psychically. I see no contradiction in being intelligent and fascinated
by many things and at the same time being sexually and psychologically
fulfilled by submitting to Sir. I am not, and he does not want me to be
a clingy, co-dependent whining thing of a slave. He wants me to be an
intelligent, independent, articulate wife who chooses to submit
to his will at the same time.
JG-L: Do you know why being
so completely encased and thus virtually isolated from the world beyond
your multiple layers of latex appeals to you? And, really, do you care?
LatexLady: Well, my personal
fetish is to be objectified, as I mentioned previously. That is, I want
to become Sir’s object for whatever use he has for me. Total Encasement
and isolation from the world is part of that … it makes me feel
close to that level. Only latex works for that. Leather or cloth or steel
do not separate you enough from the world. They do not offer the same
sense of integument.
In our experience, only latex, with its unique feel and properties forms
this barrier. It feels inorganic (it is not, but it feels so). It looks
artificial and inhuman in many respects, especially hoods. For me, philosophically,
latex embodies ‘The Other’ and makes me more ‘Other’
then human. This plays very well to my fantasies. Again, recall that I
think of my submission as a vocation, a submission not only to Sir, but
to the discipline represented by the rubber, the discipline of a loss
of ego and intent. Wearing the latex totally is the thing that removes
me from the world and therefore allows me to be closer to my Dom.
JG-L: When you and your husband
decided to get married, did you adopt the ‘slave’ life style
you now live, or did it evolve slowly?
LatexLady: We were already
living a D/s lifestyle and I was already submissive to a latex discipline,
although not as much as today. I wore latex underwear to my wedding, and
even a pair of long rubber gloves under my white satin ones. But this
was all we could afford at the time (1975). If I could have been married
in a rubber wedding dress I would have jumped at the chance. We even contemplated
me making a latex wedding gown, but could not afford it. The
depth and extent of my submission did evolve, however, over the
next several decades. We had not explored our commitment to this lifestyle
very much at all by 1975. That left so much more to learn about each other.
JG-L: I know quite a few couples
who are deeply committed to their own particular brand of kink, but how
‘serious’ are you with yours?
LatexLady: I live in total
enclosure and I go sometimes days at a time gagged, hooded, bound, and
chained. How much more serious could we be? For me, as I said, the submission
to Sir is like a religious vocation. I have drowned my ego in his, and
my actions and submissions are a reflection of that. Like a nun, my goal
is to be removed from the world so that I may better serve the higher
purpose in my life … for me that is Sir. The rubber serves to help
me do this by removing my identity and to some degree my humanity …
to objectify me.
JG-L: Let me pose a couple
of hypothetical questions to you: (1) If your husband told you that this
was how you were going to live the remainder of your life, like it or
not, how would you feel? (2) If he told you that he was going to take
additional, but as yet unspecified measures to ensure your continued submission
and controllability, would you accept that? Would you do so without question?
LatexLady: I would be most
happy, and yes I would do so without question. I am actually hoping he
will at some point tell me that I will live the rest of my life
in total enclosure. There is a part of me that hates the morning ritual
of being undressed and bathed … I just want to keep the suits on
forever. That can’t happen, of course, but it has crossed
my mind! Sir says someone should invent oxygen permeable latex that can
be permanently attached to skin with no ill effect.
JG-L: Have you ever used ‘safe
words’ or ‘safe signals’? If you did, have you retained
any of these?
LatexLady: Of course ... at
first for the first ten or twelve years, but we haven’t felt the
need for them for some time. Sir is good enough at reading me that it
is no longer an issue. However, I recommend them for all new partners.
JG-L: Do you have other areas
of interest within the scene? Can you tell me about them?
LatexLady: Well, I love the
idea of rubber fashion entering the mainstream. I want to see lots of
latex on the street and I seriously believe that subs and doms should
be able to express their predilections in public. Certainly street and
club wear should be common, but also collars, harnesses, fetish wear,
hoods, gags, all that, should be acceptable on the street. As much as
I now enjoy it, I should not have to wear my burqa to avoid being
harassed or detained. I enjoyed my evening in Tokyo where I was merely
seen as being eccentric. We are not interested in scenes with pros or
even much in the club scene … we hardly ever attend. We share with
some friends, but not many.
JG-L: How about ‘external’
hobbies such as golf, sewing, travel, etc.?
LatexLady: I sew and do crafts
like embroidery, etc. I love to travel and see new places. I read voraciously.
We dive and that is always fun. Cinema, Theatre, Concerts, and Ballet
have always been big draws to us and we enjoy museums and art exhibits,
particularly gallery openings.
JG-L: Do you have, or enjoy
wearing a chastity belt? Why?
LatexLady: I have worn one
once. Didn’t care for it and more to the point, Sir did not care
for it. Sir wants me to have orgasms in public. He wants to be
able to make me endure them without showing emotions. He controls my access
to sexual pleasure more by demanding obedience than by enforcing it. Chastity
is not in our role play J
JG-L: If your husband decided
to impose the wearing of such a device, how would you feel about the requirement?
LatexLady: I would comply as
I have in the past. I do not care much for them, but I always comply.
JG-L: I just have to ask, seeing
as how I sort of brought the idea into the modern age ... how would you
feel about being fitted with different lengths of Inhibitor Bar, and being
so intimately and strongly controlled by it, when you’re out in
LatexLady: I don’t know.
I am often chained or otherwise bound or restrained under my burqa so
I am used to the sense of helplessness that it engenders. And, I must
say, I rather enjoy going out knowing I cannot use my hands, my posture
is enforced (sometimes I must stand all during dinner) and I cannot walk
freely. How your device would change that I do not know.
JG-L: From the few images I’ve
seen of you, and from one of our web cam sessions, I see that all of your
garments consist entirely of rubber. Do you have any particular preferences
as to styles, restraint types, or thicknesses? Are you permitted a choice
in what you must wear each day?
LatexLady: I am almost never
permitted a choice. My clothes are chosen each day (or the evening before)
by Sir and, should I need to change, there are acceptable alternate outfits.
I have some small choice in that, and I have some small choice in jewellery
Much of the time, however, I am put into the transparent skin-suit of
the day based on Sir’s whim, and then dressed for the day according
to his selection. We both prefer me in long sleeved, full skirted dresses
with high collars. I am usually made to wear an opaque cat suit over the
transparent one and a hood to match. Gloves, stockings, and boots are
all pretty much de rigueur. I am corseted over the skin-suit and usually
under the second cat suit. If it is a particularly hot day I may be allowed
to have no second layer, just a dress over the skin-suit. It varies by
Hobble skirts, chains, harnesses, gags, posture collars, and such are
also by his choice. I am permitted to choose whether to be gagged
when I venture out without him and I choose the colour of my burqa. However,
I usually choose to be gagged now … not sure when that happened.
He released me from mandatory public gagging a few months ago and I went
out several times without it, then suddenly realized I was self gagging
almost every time I left the house. I often put it on to answer the doorbell
even though I could just be quiet. When I choose my outfits, however,
I notice and Sir notices as well, that I tend to choose more restrictive
ones than he does.
JG-L: Can you get into and
out of all of these intricate and confining garments easily? Are you locked
into them and unable to take them off, despite how much you may wish to?
LatexLady: No, I cannot. Maid
helps me (our live-in rubber maid, 26 years old, with us 2½ years
now, not always sealed as I am, but always wears latex). I do manage mostly
when we travel without her, but Sir usually helps me a lot then. I am
occasionally locked in my clothes or a locking posture collar is used
as both collar and gag, but frankly, my locks are in my head. If Sir says
to be dressed such an such a way, I am dressed such and such a way. Why
would I remove anything unless he permitted it?
JG-L: Has this situation ever
led you to emotional upset and anger at your desires to escape your new
LatexLady: Upset and anger
yes … usually when something tears or doesn’t fit properly.
Desire to escape? No, not at all. One does not escape from one’s
chosen lifestyle. One may endure or may revel. I usually choose revelling.
JG-L: And, what was the end
result? A temporary cessation, or an enforced commitment to stay as you
LatexLady: The result was no
result. When I am frustrated or angry about something that has to do with
my submission or my outfits, I either meditate and let the anger pass,
eat something (usually helps) or I change garments into something similar.
I would not cease wearing them any more than you would cease wearing a
shirt because the pocket was torn … you would just wear another
JG-L: What are your sleeping
garments and arrangements?
LatexLady: I sleep in either
the skin-suit with hood and gloves and feet (yes, I am trained now to
do so) or I wear a nightgown over it (in latex too. I have several). Sleeping
in the nude (skin-suit only) happens when Sir wants me to; I collapse
into sleep after a long session; or I am put into my vacuum bed for the
JG-L: Do you enjoy sleeping
in restraints? Is that condition imposed as a daily thing? Not often enough?
LatexLady: Yes I do, and no,
it is not every night. But it is often to some degree. It varies from
mild to severe. The vacuum bed is probably the most severe since no motion
is possible for the night (I wake up very stiff), but hogtied in bed beside
him or on the floor beside the bed is not uncommon. Wrist restraints and
ankle restraints fastened to the bed are more common. I have been trained
to sleep with very little motion.
JG-L: Can you escape from them,
or must you be freed by either your husband or the maid?
LatexLady: I must be freed.
If I am restrained, it is not with the option of me removing them.
JG-L: Would you please describe
your emotions and sensations when you are first locked into the clothing,
and realize that you cannot escape from it? How does this make you feel
... particularly about getting yourself into the fix in the first place?
LatexLady: My first emotion
is a sense of peace. My next emotion is a sexual thrill, and the one after
that is a sense of acceptance and protection … that I have accepted
the discipline of the rubber once more and that I will be protected by
it once again for the day.
JG-L: After being confined
and controlled like this for however long, unable to escape, do you enjoy
the events that follow your release? Do you think that this kind of foreplay
enhances your sexual experiences?
LatexLady: We do not see it
as foreplay. It is life. When a woman puts on a silk blouse and a nice
suit to go to work, she does not see it as foreplay, usually. I do not
see my latex that way either. It is what I wear. The skin-suit is part
of me now, not a sexual stimulant. Of course, how I look in total enclosure,
how my body feels when stroked through latex, is a sexual stimulant and
I rather enjoy the sight of me in a mirror … the more bizarre the
better. But when I am released from this it is often a let down …
I miss it. Of course with total enclosure all the time I have very little
opportunity to feel that way.
JG-L: Do you enjoy or thirst
for sex, while clothed in some of the gear shown in the images?
LatexLady: I have a reasonably
high libido. And I enjoy sex very much. The fetish gear and the rubber
do increase my arousal, but most of my reactions come from submitting
to Sir. I also get very aroused from going out in public, covered, gagged
JG-L: Let me set another scene
for you: suspended, fully encased in rubber, gagged, blinded, deafened,
stomach tubed, breath controlled, gas masked, legs spread wide, bound
helplessly and suddenly a sexual episode begins ... Is that an erotic
thought or concept for you?
LatexLady: Oh yes. We love
playing extreme scenes.
JG-L: Are you required to wear
LatexLady: Not all the time.
I am not ‘collared’ in the BD/SM sense. Or at least that collar
is in my mind. I am required to wear a posture collar fairly often, and
we have one that is also a “cover the mouth” gag.
JG-L: If your husband informed
you that you were to be fitted with a permanent, i.e. non-removable collar,
of the kind made by Axsmar, complete with prominent restraint rings? How
about a close-once only type, if your husband demanded it?
LatexLady: LOL … your
questions betray more about your kinks than mine, JG!J But, if Sir did
require me to be permanently decorated in this or any other manner, I
JG-L: OK, let’s take
it as a given that you have now been fitted with the collar. How would
you feel if he next decided that you were to also be belted, and wear
ankle and wrist cuffs for the rest of your life, thus rendering you totally
and easily controllable, would that frighten or intrigue you?
LatexLady: Intrigue, definitely.
Sir doesn’t frighten me … I trust him too much.
JG-L: Do you wear any sign
of ownership and/or control other than a wedding ring?
LatexLady: Of course. I wear
the latex and the burqa.
JG-L: What don’t you
like as far as restraints are concerned? Why?
LatexLady: I am not fond of
rope. It scratches or burns (and dulls latex). I prefer latex, leather
or metal. That said, I can browse for hours over books of Japanese rope
bondage. I just do not care for it on me.
JG-L: You’ve told me
in some private IM sessions that you’ve played with temporary piercings.
Would you go further, i.e. labia, clitoral, ear, and a septum piercing
... if your husband indicated that it was what he required of you, whether
you really wanted to or not?
LatexLady: Yes, absolutely
… as and when he decides I should be pierced, permanently or temporarily,
I am happy to comply.
JG-L: How would you feel if
you were actually then pierced, and the jewellery was made so that you
could not remove it from yourself, nor could your husband? In other words,
LatexLady: I could not remove
it anyway, until he told me to. I do not see a difference. You are thinking
in terms of a physical impossibility for me to remove something. But all
that I need is for him to tell me to leave something in or on. The permanence
in my mind is much stronger than a link made of steel.
JG-L: If this jewellery was
in fact mounted in your flesh, can you describe how you’d feel to
have it used as an additional means of controlling and securing you, with
leashes being attached to it?
LatexLady: I imagine I would
feel as I do now when a temporary piercing is used by Sir to tether or
control me. It hurts!, but it feels very good to give him my pain.
JG-L: What emotions do you
feel in this situation, knowing that you may be left in bondage and perhaps
totally isolated for a long time to come?
LatexLady: Long term bondage
like this brings on a meditative state in me. I find it wonderful to be
bound and to be restrained, covered, encased, and controlled.
JG-L: What is your favourite
bondage scenario? Why?
LatexLady: That is hard to
say. I rather enjoy suspension with the full enclosure and the intubations
you’ve described above. Another favourite is to be sealed in my
JG-L: People sometimes crave
a bondage experience only, instead of a sexual encounter with their partner.
Does this often happen for you?
LatexLady: Yes, it is quite
common. I enjoy being sealed in the vacuum bed for hours with no sex necessary.
JG-L: Speaking from personal
experience, many of us feel an intense ‘rush’ of excitement
that seems to fill their entire body (sweating, trembling, shaking hands,
etc.) when fully and helplessly bound, knowing we cannot escape our predicament.
Does this sort of phenomena happen to you?
LatexLady: Not really. I experience
a great calm, a sense of acceptance when I am put into heavy bondage.
JG-L: How often does your husband
confine you fully? As an erotic enticement, or because you’ve been
‘bad’, or because he just loves to see you in bondage?
LatexLady: The punishment I
receive if I misbehave is Coventry … I do not get any bondage, any
attention from my Dom. This is terrible to me. Sir confines me very often.
Several times a week.
JG-L: You’ve written
in your blog that you’ve played around with sensory deprivation.
How intense are these situations and what sort of durations are you subjected
LatexLady: Very intense. Particularly
when Sir tethers me to the pool drain in SCUBA. I also enjoy being put
in completely closed inflatable hood with only small nose tubes, then
being placed in the vacuum bed. I can’t hear or feel anything around
my head, and just the pressurized rubber on my body. I love that sensory
deprivation and isolation.
JG-L: Can you describe the
various pieces of equipment and garments that are employed to create the
sensory deprivation scene for you?
LatexLady: Gas masks are used;
hoods, and as I’ve just described, the full covering inflatable
hood. Also, we have a completely inflatable suit from Cocoon. It is incredible.
JG-L: Can you describe the
process of putting you into the situation and your emotions and sensations
while it happens?
LatexLady: Well, I am stripped
nude (which means, now, that I am completely covered in transparent latex),
then I am put into the bag or the vacuum bed, or the suspension rig …
whatever Sir wants. My emotions are anticipation and contentment.
JG-L: You would appear to enjoy
your husband’s desires as much a great deal. I have to assume that
you are not just doing this to please him, but because you actually want
to do it. Your comments?
LatexLady: Doing it for him
pleases me. This is hard to explain outside of my analogy of joining a
religious order and submitting to the will of a higher power. I love to
do the things that make him happy. I enjoy complying even when I do not
enjoy the act itself. However, most of the time I do enjoy the things
he has me do. I truly do enjoy the latex, the restriction and restraint
it imposes, the bondage games and even more so, the medical and other
scenes we engage in.
JG-L: What has been the most
frightening bondage situation for you? Why was it so?
LatexLady: The breath control
exercises. Being tied to the drain of a pool and allowed to run out of
air … that is scary.
JG-L: On the other hand, which
bondage scenes and equipment do you really enjoy? Can you explain your
LatexLady: The breath control
exercises. Being tied to the drain of a pool and allowed to run out of
air … and the vacuum bed scenes we do.
JG-L: You’ve written
on the blog that you had, quite literally, no access to the outer world
and everyone in the rubber fetish scene has that sort of fantasy, but
how is it managed? You need food and water, and you need to have bowel
movements and be able to urinate just like everyone else. Please don’t
stint on the details.
LatexLady: Well, I have access to some degree,
but nothing touches my skin except latex. I do eat by mouth usually. At
restaurants I usually remain gagged and ingest through a tube later in
the evening. If not, I cut my food into small chunks and bring the plate
under my burqa to eat with.
However, I am sometimes fed by NG tube or double balloon catheter. In
these cases I insert a tube whether through my nose or mouth into my stomach,
or maid does. Liquefied food is then pumped into me by maid from a 60
cc irrigation syringe. The NG tube is simple red rubber with no balloons.
The DB catheter is far more complex to employ. First, it is swallowed
and this is sometimes difficult, then the balloon on the end that is in
the stomach is inflated to prevent it being ejected by normal stomach
or throat contractions. A second balloon is then inflated in my esophagus,
preventing the catheter from going too deep. It feels very strange having
a tube dangling from your mouth and the balloon in your chest inflated.
I void and eliminate the old fashioned way most of the times, but typically,
I have my bowel movement in the morning after my bath before I am rubbered.
If I need to go again during the day, a zipper is opened and I am administered
an enema, and generally, I typically have three to four a week. Sometimes
my bladder is cathetered and I am either clamped, or have a bag attached
to my thigh. The skin-suits have a little hole for a tube to pass through.
The zippers do not come down that far.
Now that bodily functions and necessities have been dealt with ... How
is your skin kept cleaned, etc.?
LatexLady: As I have blogged, we have a very
specific protocol which involves a daily bath, being completely dried,
then slipped into a freshly cleaned and dried skin suit. We use a good
lubricating lotion like Keri on my body before the suit goes on, moisturizing
my skin and making sure it is nourished. We look for rashes and what we
have found is that being sure there is no water trapped inside the suit
seems to be the most important step.
Also, the suits are very thin and this seems to reduce binding and pinching…so
I do not wind up with sore spots. And lastly, I am now hairless which
helps a lot, I think.
Are you restrained so that you are unable to remove any part of your enclosure
ensemble, and I assume the same is true for the catheters, plugs, etc.?
Not always. I spend many days completely free to remove my dress and even
my cat suits if I choose. I just typically do not choose to do so. If
it is hot, I may elect to remove one cat suit and wear the dress over
the skin suit and I can even elect to take a shower enclosed in latex.
What I must not do is allow myself to be un-encased during the
Sir has given me permission to moderate my enclosure as needed, but it
always starts with his choices. And then there are the plugs,
catheters, and such (occasionally I am gagged all day, or even made to
wear a hood with no eyes). These are at his whim and I must leave
them alone and not remove them. But, as I’ve said previously, my
restraint is mostly in my head … I choose to remain so.
That pool scene sounds pretty damned intense! Knowing that you have limited
air and are under, quite literally, tons of water. Again, being a gear
head, I have to ask, what sort of equipment is used for this situation
(i.e. a full face mask, an upper face mask, a full rubber wet suit? Is
the mask face plate blanked out so that you’re blind in it?
I wear a standard, aluminium 80 tank and BCD over just a rubber cat suit,
but with a full enclosure hood too. Sometimes it is one of my transparent
skin-suits, sometimes another cat suit over that. No flippers! The dive
mask is a normal one that I can see everything out of.
Usually, I am placed in a rubber harness that restrains my wrists to my
waist or behind my back while I'm submerged and my ankles are also bound
so that I'm unable to kick too wildly. But, I must control myself
as well. We’ve tried it in a hogtie position, but sir prefers me
straight out. We might use a mermaid dress sometime … with both
feet forced into the fin, like Daryl Hannah in the movie.
What sort of restraints are employed and how secure are they?
LatexLady: Very secure. Sometimes an
arm-binder behind the back, sometimes to my waist. I cannot remove anything,
and I cannot reach any of the hoses for the airflow or my mask.
Are you told in advance that this is what is planned for you, or, are
you just taken to the pool then prepared, and finally, taken to your fate?
LatexLady: Oh yes. Sir seldom surprises me
with a bondage scene … he likes to slowly tell me every planned
detail before we start, so that I have many opportunities to object and
try to back out … which I am not allowed to do … it increases
the anticipation and the excitement for us both.
JG-L: How deeply are
you submerged when this is done?
LatexLady: The pool is only
8 feet deep and I’m put into the deep end. I’m then tethered
to the bottom with a two or three foot lead and so I can see
the surface easily, but cannot reach it at all. As well, I’m
made positively buoyant so that I am always straining on the tether …
What sort of safety systems are there for you? I.e. Some sort of radio
or telephone to indicate that you are in distress).
is there and he can release me and have me on the surface in less than
2 seconds. He stays right with me and never leaves me alone.
JG-L: Then there’s the
issue of hypothermia. How do you handle that?
A session in the pool only lasts about 30-40 minutes. That’s how
long a single tank is good for at that depth and so hypothermia is not
an issue. We don’t even go in the pool at less than about 80 degrees.
To expand a little on this theme ... have you ever considered having yourself
submerged in the pool, fastened to the bottom, and fed air from above
for even longer periods of time, complete with all the bodily functions,
feeding and water? This would be much like the other sensory deprivation
we’ve discussed, but I’d think, considerably more intense.
We’ve discussed that at some point, but do not have the gear necessary
JG-L: Have you practiced self-bondage,
when you can experiment with the bondage equipment and restraints at your
own pace? Did you enjoy those times or were they just poor substitutes
for your husband binding you?
LatexLady: I have, under orders
from him, but not at my own instigation. That said, I do tend to dress
myself more stringently than he does, but it is in aid of pleasing him.
He loves to watch me gag myself either with a hood with a gag built in,
or a half mask over a hood with a gag, or my mouth covering posture collar.
JG-L: Do you enjoy sex while
in bondage? Often? Is it better than sex without being restrained? Can
you explain your answers, please?
LatexLady: Oh yes. And yes,
it is better than unrestrained sex. Being restricted and restrained as
my body reaches its peak subtly shifts the orgasm from my body into my
brain; a much sexier place. I also love an orgasm while I am running out
of air, as well from a breath control scene.
JG-L: OK, and thank you. Now,
in a somewhat related area ... It can be seen in the pictures of you in
the red nun’s habit, that you’re wearing ballet-toed boots.
Are you required to wear this type of footwear often? How high are the
LatexLady: The boots
in the nun pictures are ankle boots with a 7 inch heel. I wear them every
couple of weeks or as Sir decides I should
JG-L: How long did it take
you to get used to wearing the boots, and, how long have you been wearing
LatexLady: I have owned
and worn ballet boots since 1979. It took about three months of wearing
them, almost all the time I was at home, to learn to walk. I have worn
heels since I was 12 but these took a while. I did not use stretchers
... I had not heard of them.
JG-L: I have a pair of this
type (thigh high, lace-up) and so know that its quite restricting: obviously
an adjunct to your over-all controllability and bondage. Although actually
unneeded, are you also fitted with ankle cuffs and chains over the boots
JG-L: You live your life as
you wish and not subject to some religious or cultural dogma, but you
know that a Muslim woman is supposed to be seen and not heard, as are
nuns. The distinctive sounds this type of footwear makes when you walk,
break that parameter. It would appear that you enjoy this type of footwear,
but how long are you kept in them at any one time, difficult as they can
be to wear?
the rustle of latex is probably more noise than a muslimah or nun should
make. I wear them for several hours at a time now, and have been made
to sleep in them. My toes get sore if I'm on my feet after a while.
JG-L: Do you have to sleep
in them? Often?
sometimes, but not often...once a! month or so probably.
JG-L: Are there another types
of interesting shoes or boots you must wear?
have thigh highs I love and have worn a pair that had dildos attached
to the cuffs, in the crotch ... right food forward -rear end plug out,
left foot forward - front plug out rear in, etc etc.
JG-L: Wow! That must be an
incredible sensation and if out with your husband or shopping, no possible
way to stop it! OK, thank you! Now, another area related to maintaining
you in a state of helplessness and vulnerability ... gloves and mitts.
You’ve written that you are always gloved, if not double-gloved,
thus increasing the difficulty you endure in moving your fingers freely
and manipulating things. Is this carried even further, perhaps with the
addition of totally hand enclosing bondage mitts, these being fastened
over the gloves?
have some mitts as you describe and use them in play, but not for everyday.
JG-L: You’ve mentioned
in other sections of this interview that you are frequently gagged as
well as being fitted with assorted catheters. Are there other intrusive
devices that are employed, i.e. dildos, butt plugs, ear plugs, etc.?
of the above, yes. I prefer the soft silicone dildos.
JG-L: Are they all used simultaneously, or
some one time, and others the next?
LatexLady: It varies,
but often they are all fitted to me at the same time.
JG-L: Without trying to be
too personal ... how large are these devices? So much so that you feel
discomfort (as your husband may require), or are they easily borne?
are specifically not so large that they cause discomfort. They
are just large enough to feel and please. My anal plugs are, in fact ,
quite thin ...just enough to please me.
JG-L: How frequently are you fitted with these
implements? Is this under command, or voluntary?
wear a rear dildo daily now, and have for 5 years. it is thin, however.
I wear a front one often, say three days a week. I wear them voluntarily
and even if Sir does not specify them. However, he does so quite often.
JG-L: Does the wearing/being
fitted with these devices assist you to get into the head space of being
even more submissive, vulnerable, and dominated?
in that they remind me that my body does not belong to me as
well as the fact that I am a slave to the rubber I wear as well as to
the husband I love.
JG-L: Would you enjoy having
EVERY bodily orifice plugged or externally controlled in some manner,
in addition to the sensory deprivation?
LatexLady: Mmmm ...
been there, done that and will have it done to me again I am sure.
JG-L: Returning to your feeding
by tube ... when so equipped, are you also gagged/silenced in other manners?
usually with an inflatable, or with a tight mask or collar across the
mouth. When using the double balloon catheter I am not gagged, but the
tube passes through a small hole in my mask.
JG-L: What types of gags are
used on and by you and your husband? Which type do you prefer, or do your
preferences enter the equation at all?
my preference does not determine his choice. I prefer the across
the mouth half-mask, or an inflatable, or a ball gag.
JG-L: A friend of mine has
the technology available to create a full, oral cavity block (gag, if
you must), but this device, I feel, will be substantially more effective
than the standard ball or inflatable type. What is envisioned, is that
a set of dental moulds would be made, then the mouth filler would be created
from them, so that it would fit the contours of your mouth exactly, leaving
room for your tongue to rest comfortably. Would something like this be
of interest to you or your husband?
much. We've seen rubber finest's but have not placed order yet.
JG-L: If something like this
was created, and you were required to wear it for long durations (weeks,
months, a year?), complete with the throat tube feeding system, could
you manage it? Does the prospect excite or terrify you?
LatexLady: I can do
anything I am ordered to do, I feel certain, but the prospect excite me
a great deal. I love being gagged, particularly in public. I
nearly had an orgasm this evening in the elevator, even though filled
with people. I was all alone and gagged and I was going down to meet friends
JG-L: Long term silencing would
be very challenging for you, both physically and mentally. Although you’re
free to write or communicate in a non-verbal manner, do you feel that
there would have to be a requirement for you to be permitted to speak
at least once in a while?
LatexLady: It would
not be required. I could adapt to having my mouth permanently filled and
sewn shut if need be. gagging is fun and exciting for me. I do not know
JG-L: Before you and your husband
met, what sort of work did you do? How old were you when you met him?
LatexLady: Mostly high school
homework. J I was 18 when we met and 20 when we married. After we married,
I worked as a university professor once I had my doctorate. I’ve
also taught school and later I taught adults.
JG-L: Did you ever spend any
time in the military? How about the medical professions?
LatexLady: No military for
either of us. Sir worked in the medical field while at university.
JG-L: Do you have any bondage,
restraint, or other dreams/fantasies that you wish to have fulfilled?
Can you describe them?
LatexLady: None that aren’t
being fulfilled. This year’s total enclosure and submission with
no need to work in the ‘real’ world has been a long time dream
JG-L: Given that we’re
only on this Earth for a finite time ... If you were offered the opportunity
to actually have those made into reality, would you do it? Why or why
LatexLady: Uh … done it!
JG-L: What was the first piece
of really interesting bondage gear you ever wore? Where did you find it?
LatexLady: The first really
interesting piece I was ever given was my vacuum bed. I was fascinated
by the look of a human, vacuum-packed like that, all in black. It looks
so uncomfortable, but feels so comfy!
JG-L: How would you feel, to
be transposed into a human ‘animal’? Some would say that you
are part way there already, living the life you do. By the preceding,
I mean a human, female horse, completely harnessed, bridled, bitted and
controlled by a set of reins ... or, perhaps as a human, female ‘cow’,
being milked as one?
LatexLady: Sir has never had
the pony girl fetish. I think some of the rubber pony outfits with hoof
gloves and boots are beautiful, but I have never had the desire to wear
JG-L: From my own perspective
of dressing ladies in various pieces of my own creations, I know that
it’s an intensely personal, ceremonial process. Can you describe
the emotions and sensations you experience when you’re dressed in
your complete ensemble?
LatexLady: When maid dresses
me in the mornings it is a ceremonial, ritualistic thing. It makes me
feel protected and content. Undressing me and preparing me for bed is
as well. We often make love then rather than in the morning.
JG-L: At times, we all play
around the edges of non-consensual bondage. Have you ever been restrained
by your husband for being bitchy or for having broken one of his ‘rules’?
LatexLady: No, as I said …
punishment is being denied the bondage and the rubber, and the attention.
JG-L: As a female, and being
generally of smaller stature than most males, does this make you feel
more vulnerable, more easily able to be bound and thus controlled?
LatexLady: Yes, definitely.
I like the fact that I am small and vulnerable. It turns me on and I crave
the protection he gives me through rubber and bondage and the D/s life.
That said, I have leveled a few boys in my time with a swift backhand
to the crotch.
JG-L: Do you enjoy being forced
to submit then chained or bound? Has this occurred often?
LatexLady: I can’t imagine
I would if it were forced … I prefer to say yes.
JG-L: Again, in my own personal
experience, there can sometimes be large elements of terror and fear mixed
into the bondage and restraint scenario. Do you find this to be true also?
LatexLady: Fear and anticipation
can be wonderful, yes.
JG-L: Have you ever played
with electrical stimulation? What types?
LatexLady: Yes. We’ve
tried PES and TENS and settled finally on a violet wand as the best.
JG-L, to LL’s Husband:
The technology exists for you to be able to control, pleasure and/or discipline
your wife from any point in the world, via cell-phone. Is this a possibility
that you might consider for future employment when you travel and she
is at home?
LatexLady’s Husband: Interesting, but all I’ve got to do is call her and tell her what
to do to control her. I like the idea of a club equipped with Bluetooth
transponders and women wandering around in it with Bluetooth dildos or
stimulators and each room would illicit a different response.
JG-L: Many people in the bondage
community like to play with medical gear: such things as speculums, ventilators
(a mechanical breathing machine), operating tables, obstetric chairs,
and other tools and equipment. Have you tried anything in this area? Did
you enjoy the experiences, or did they frighten you?
LatexLady: All of the above
as well as catheters and intubations. I have grown to crave these scenes.
JG-L: Do you ever worry about
your fascination with the strong bondage scenarios, particularly in the
context of your current state of total rubber enclosure?
LatexLady: Worry? No …
I look forward to it getting better with time.
JG-L: Why does this fully-concealing
type of clothing you now wear appeal to you?
LatexLady: It turns me into
an object. It removes me from the world and makes me outside the world.
And it looks good too. I love the way my burqas look.
JG-L: I know you’re not
a person who’s just doing this for thrills, but that you have a
deep need and desire for it. Are you a show off?
LatexLady: I do not feel particularly
exhibitionistic. But I am not shy either.
JG-L: Do you ever allow a display
of your restraints, even inadvertently? How does it make you feel if others
recognize that you are, in fact, restrained and totally subject to the
control of your husband?
LatexLady: Not intentionally.
I was ‘outed’ while wearing rubber under a wool suit one time,
because I forgot I wasn’t wearing knee boots, but I don’t
flash it, no.
JG-L: Do you have a thirst
for the more intense sensations, emotions, and feelings that are created
when you are chained, leashed, and/or wearing your rubber ensemble? Can
LatexLady: Oh yes. Being restrained
increases the pleasure dramatically.
JG-L: Do you ever switch into
a ‘dominant mode’? Often? Why, and was it satisfying or not
LatexLady: I do on occasion
if he orders me to. I enjoy it a bit, but I am also jealous that it is
not me on the bondage table.
JG-L: Do you regret any of
the things and scenes you’ve done, or do you worry that others may
think you’re completely strange?
LatexLady: No regrets, no …
why … I am completely strange. Isn’t that the point?
JG-L: What is the most interesting
scene to you and why is it?
LatexLady: I think an extreme
suspension/sensory deprivation scene is the most interesting because it
stimulates me the most while removing the most of my humanity and identity.
However, being taken out in public completely enclosed, gagged and hooded
is an amazing turn-on, and doing it truly exposed in Japan was fantastic.
JG-L: What is the scariest
scene you can imagine and why is that so?
LatexLady: I do not know. Nothing
comes to mind.
JG-L: I know you’ve got
access to a lot of pretty seriously-intentioned equipment, but what piece(s)
do you not have, and would like to?
LatexLady: An iron lung would
be interesting to be confined in for a few weeks. Having all of my bodily
functions fully automated and controlled (breathing, feeding, elimination,
with sight, sound, and speech denied or limited) would be incredible.
JG-L: OK, we’ve dealt
with the hardware side of things. Are you planning to do any photo-shoots
in public places?
LatexLady: That is always up to Sir.
We are not public people and we do not take many photos. This has led
many people to doubt me. I do not know where we may go next. Mostly we
just forget to take pictures when we are out.
JG-L: How about locales? Do
you have a special area, or do you and your husband just look for a good
place, then shoot the pictures?
LatexLady: Not really. Sir
is not a photographer. He just snaps when he wants I think.
JG-L: Do you have any words
for people who are interested in bondage play? What advice can you give
those who want to try your bondage ideas at home?
LatexLady: Be careful …
but try things and try to approach everything with an open mind and a
JG-L: Most of western society
is familiar with the expression that "a woman's hair is her 'crowning
glory'" and I have a certain amount of agreement with that sentiment.
As a consequence, Western women, in general, take the loss of their hair
as a substantial psychological blow. You indicate on your web site that
you are completely bald, by choice. How did you feel to have all of your
hair removed the first time?
It was as much my idea as Sir's. My hair has always been very light and
thin and I'm naturally a medium blonde, but without a great deal of density.
For years I'd kept it pixie short to facilitate the wearing of hoods,
but for this long-term encasement, we decided it should all go.
Nonetheless, I confess tears came to my eyes when I had it first removed
completely in a stylist's studio. Once I got home from that however, I
perked up when I discovered how smoothly a hood slides over freshly shorn
After that, my eyebrows were removed at Sir's command (not my idea) and
my underarm and pubic hair had been removed already. I have kept myself
prepubescently smooth for decades. I do not like shaving it, nor does
He like the stubble there, and so we have used chemical depilatories for
ages. I can testify that they are much more efficient and far less odorous
now than in 1975!
the loss of your head hair makes the wearing of full hoods and helmets
a lot easier, but this didn't really enter into the equation, if the truth
be told, did it?
The hoods were going to be worn, yes ... if that is what you mean. But
Sir has always sought the pleasurable way for me to comply. He and I are
not into pain very much and certainly not into incidental discomfort for
its own sake. And actually, we've found me being hairless to be quite
sexy. My head hair does grow back and I now have it shaved, usually
by maid, about twice a week; using a gentle cream and a lady's razor.
The sensation of her rubber-gloved hands caressing my head and the slow
stroke of the blade across it is enough to produce an orgasm, quite honestly.
it take you long to acclimatize to the idea that you would not have hair
again for a long time, if ever?
LatexLady: Not long.
I knew I was going to enter the discipline of this lifestyle, and it only
took about a week for me to see my transparently-hooded scalp as beautiful.
Actually, I began to understand why some chemotherapy patients accent
their hairlessness. Having no eyebrows was disconcerting at first, but
even that became normal. Did you ever notice Whoopi Goldberg has none?
JG-L: How deeply/far has this
proceeded? I.e. ... are your eyebrows gone also?
as I said, Sir decided that they should go as well. They were chemically
removed and are now gently shaved, along with the rest of me. By the way,
I'm shaved daily somewhere. My head and eyebrows are shaved one
day and my pubes and underarms on alternating days.
you ever consider permanent depilation ... knowing that your hair would
NEVER come back?
Yes, I would. The sleekness, the 'otherness' of
it is intriguing. I have actually developed an attraction to hairless
women since I began. Maid is bald by the way, and arrived at our house
that way 2.5 years ago. She has eyebrows still, but always wears a wig
in public if not burqa'd. Her former Owner demanded it, and she was all
for it because she loved the look. I have to say, she probably
has seduced me to it more than anything.
the loss of your hair (and therefore distinctive identity as a female
person) an attractant to you, given that you are, effectively, an 'owned
think I am somewhat more than my hair. I do not feel I've lost anything
terribly distinctive by removing my hair. If anything, alopecia makes
me more distinctive, while at the same time making me more of
an 'object'. It does help to maintain the illusion that I am no longer
a member of the human race ... that I have surrendered part of my human
aspect/status to embrace the discipline of latex worship.
you recommend this to other females, perhaps as an experiment, or as a
life style change? Why, or why not?
yes, I definitely would, and have. First, it is a wonderful way to symbolize
your commitment to submission. It is quite a nice way to make yourself
intensely different, or, if you like, a way to allow yourself to vary
your look with wigs. For any woman who wishes to wear a wig or wigs a
lot of the time, this way is much cooler and more pleasurable.
Finally, I think it symbolizes a woman's empowerment as well (funny how
symbols can work both ways). If a woman chooses to be bald, and goes to
work that way, no one can say anything to her. She can't be fired. She
can demonstrate to herself and her circle of contacts that she has chosen
a new lifestyle or new look as a way of claiming her independence. Or,
she can use it to symbolize her acceptance of the submissive lifestyle
to which she has dedicated herself. It's great that way.
The practicalities are excellent as well, and I cannot stress the sexual
aspects too much. I do not know how many men or women are attracted to
bald women, but I do know that I loved maid's look from the first, and
I know that our mutual shaving experiences are amongst the most sensuous
and pleasurable we have together.
So yes, I urge any woman to try it if she is interested. It will, after
all, grow back. Although that stage may be less enjoyable! I
think the thought of dealing with the stubble may convince me to remain
bald for the rest of my days.
JG-L: Do you play with other
LatexLady: Oh yes. I am bisexual.
I love serving some of our domme friends and maid and I have grown to
love each other deeply. She is lesbian, so that works! I actually prefer
sex with women, I think and I love a small rubber gloved hand up inside
JG-L: As a mature woman, do
you feel that other women, generally, enjoy bondage? Any ideas why or
LatexLady: I think most women
enjoy surrendering to some degree, yes. I notice far more female subs
in the real world than all the female doms in the fantasy world. I only
know one true female domme, and she is married to a male dom!
JG-L: Thank you LatexLady. I really appreciate
you taking the time and being so candid about yourself and your life.
Do you have anything else to say in closing?
LatexLady: It has been fun!
I am always amazed and gratified to hear people tell me I have inspired
them with the blog. Basically, Sir and I are just saying that latex dressing,
fetish, and D/s should and can be taken out of the closet and loved on
the street … people just need to try it.
JG-L: Please accept my and
everyone else’s very best wishes for long and happy life with your
husband, playing in the life-style you so obviously love.
LatexLady: Thank you very much.
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